Sorry for the delay in updating you all.  We didn’t get back from Nairobi until dinner time on Tuesday and I ended up getting sick Tuesday night and spent all day yesterday in bed while Ben was on duty with the kids.

Here’s a long recap of our trip/embassy visit:

We made it to Nairobi in record time, the kids were great in the car and we had a yummy lunch at Java House (a very American coffee shop chain) that had a play area for the kids.  We made it to our hotel which was very nice and hit the swimming pool.  There was a “Mischief Pool” (kiddie pool) which the kids loved because they could stand up in it.  Then we took late naps, went to dinner at the hotel and then to bed.  We got up and packed early then left the hotel at 8 for our 9:30 appointment anticipating traffic and other delays.  About 4 minutes from the hotel our car died.  We called the hotel and asked them to send us a taxi (which took 45 minutes to arrive) left our car with some random tow truck on the street and took off for the embassy.

We arrived in time and went inside where we waited for 2 hours.  At 11:30 the kids started losing it so I asked if we could leave and have our appointment when we got back.  They said they would go ahead and squeeze us in.  The man asked what we do in Kenya and why we wanted to go to the US.  Then he told us he wanted to confer with the “adoption expert” (who we have spoken with multiple times already).  When we went back to the window he said, “We can’t issue visas to children who have not been adopted, so I can’t issue you a visa at this time.”  It was very annoying because he didn’t even give us a chance to present all of our documentation that we brought along.  He just told us that we had to leave.

We walked to the Java House again and had lunch while the kids played.  Ben called the contact we have at Little Angels and told her that our visa was denied and we needed to push the adoption through ASAP.  She said that on Wednesday the committee was meeting to review adoption cases and if we had all of our stuff in by Wednesday morning she would present our case to the committee.

By the time we finished lunch our car still wasn’t working.  We thought it was a battery issue, but the battery wasn’t charging so they decided it was an alternator issue.  They said the car would be ready by 3 so we packed up the kids and got a taxi to a nearby mall.  We found a nice play area for kids with a bunch of Little Tikes houses and slides.  This entertained the kids well past their nap time until about 2:30 when Andy fell off one of the slides and scraped his face on the rug.  Then the kids started to fall apart and then we found out that the car still wasn’t fixed and wouldn’t be ready until the next morning.

At that point Ben called every hotel he knew of in Nairobi and they were all booked.  Fortunately, we know a great travel agent here in Eldoret and Ben called her and told her what we needed and she called back about 10 minutes later with a room for us.  We took another random cab to the hotel, which was beautiful!  We didn’t have any of our stuff since we had left it all in the van, but we put Eden on the sleeper sofa and Andy in our bed and they napped for 1 1/2 hours while Ben and I scrambled to get things in order with the car and the adoption.

The kids woke up and we rinsed the dirt off of all of us then headed to dinner.  After dinner, the mechanic showed up in a taxi with all of our stuff except for the one bag that had our clean outfits in it.  Fortunately, we had some random pieces of clean clothing in the other bags so we put Eden her pj’s and Andy in a onesie then put them to bed.  At least we had Andy’s pack-n-play and both kids’ Twigas.

The next morning we got up and packed, had breakfast and then rented a cab until noon so that we could leave all of our stuff in it while we wandered around another mall.  We hit the grocery store at the mall first and found Mexican food!  I bought salsa, tortilla chips, tortillas and taco and fajita seasoning!  We also bought some more diapers and some snacks.  Then we went upstairs and found a toy store which the kids loved.  They ran from one toy to another gasping and pulling things off the shelves.  🙂  Andy almost hyperventilated when he found the toy car aisle.  And then he nearly passed out when he found the Cars cars.  Ben almost passed out when he saw that the small Mater (matchbox size) cost $17!  Eden got a pair of dress up shoes and Andy got a regular matchbox car that was a more reasonable price.

We found a place called Beezy Bees which is a craft/play area for kids.  It’s designed as a babysitting place for kids to stay while their parents shop.  They had a movie playing, lots of toys and books and crafts for the kids.  Eden painted and Andy played with the trucks.  We got the call that our car would be ready at noon, so we ordered lunch to go and then piled in the taxi and took off for the car shop.

By that time the kids were hungry and tired so we loaded up our van (which worked!) and then headed back to Eldoret.  Andy ate all of his lunch then fell asleep.  Eden fell asleep holding her hotdog.  The trip home was uneventful and we were all glad to be back in our house with all of our stuff.

Our new plan is to try to push the adoption through before Dec. 1.  Most likely, Andy and I will have to fly home on Dec. 1 and then Ben and Eden will come back after Eden gets an immigration visa.  Hopefully that will be before Grace is born.  The representative from Little Angels went to the committee yesterday to present our case.  They declared Eden free for adoption but said that we have to have an updated home study from the US before they will approve us to adopt her.  You can imagine how frustrating this is since we can’t adopt her until after we get back to the US and the US won’t let us in until after she’s adopted.  Talk about stuck between a rock and a hard place.

We’re hoping we can find an agency in the US that will review and sign off on a home study that is completed by the agency here.  Then we could reapply to the committee in two weeks when they meet again.  This is pretty much our last option.  If that doesn’t work, we don’t have a plan.

Our van broke down on the way to the embassy. Good thing we left early. We’re running a bit late but are in the taxi now. Pray we make it in time and that our attitudes are more pleasant before we get there.

Wow!  How did my baby get so old?!  Andy is talking so much more now and starting to put a few words together to explain himself.  He repeats everything we (or others) say, which can be very funny.  Today he said, “Oh snap!”  Hahaha!  We have no idea where he heard that.  He has started to gallop and can jump off of both feet occasionally without falling down.  He has a couple of songs that he sings and is very concerned about boo boos these days.

Andy’s imagination is starting to kick in and the other day he came up to me patting his Twiga and said, “Baby.”  I said to him, “What is your baby’s name?” And he told me, “Andrew!”  So now half the time Twiga is Twiga and the other half of the time Twiga is Baby Andrew.

Andy’s bed has become a safe zone for him and now anytime he gets in trouble or is upset he asks to go to his bed where he snuggles up with his blankie and Twigas.

A child psychiatrist is here and she described Andy as a Labrador.  He thinks he’s a lap dog and doesn’t realize how big he really is.  As a result of this, Andy is getting very good at saying ‘sorry’ for knocking Gavin and Ellana over or crashing into other people when they aren’t prepared for him diving into their laps.  Most of the time this is done in love and an attempt to snuggle, so at least it’s with good intentions.

Sorry to keep you all in suspense! Our lawyer went to court on Tuesday and was nearly successful in getting the Kenyan travel order. The only problem was that it had the specific departure date of Dec 1st, our original travel date. We’re planning on leaving early so its safer for Meghan + Gracie and so we could fly home with Deda and Donna (4 extra hands! Woohoo!) on Nov 6th. The other minor glitch was that the magistrate wanted another proof of ownership (“search”) done on Sam’s land that we’re using as collateral. We’re not really sure why though, because the court has had the title in their possession since the last search in 2009. The problem with all this was the tight timeline: Thursday was a Kenyan holiday and we head to Nairobi on Sunday. So that left only Wednesday to get the search done and Friday for Were to go to court!

Things fell right into place though! I called Sam to see if he could rush down to Nakuru to get the search but he was already in Nakuru! So he got that and we delivered it early Friday morning to Were. He went to court at 2:30pm on a “rush” appointment to argue for an earlier leave time and to present the search. He was successful! The magistrate agreed to all terms and we now have the order and are ready for the embassy!

Our appointment at the US Embassy is on Monday at 9:30. Pray that they see the importance of the situation and approve the temporary visitor’s visa for Eden!

Were and his newest assistant!

I’m a little late on the post because Ben was in Rwanda last week and I didn’t have anyone to take my picture.  So…25 weeks!  This has actually been a fun week because Eden and Ben were both able to feel Grace moving this week.  Eden felt her on Tuesday morning right after Eden woke up.  She was very excited and when I told her that Gracie had kicked her she said, “That’s not nice Gracie.  We don’t kick.”  🙂  Eden is such a good first child.

Gracie was as excited as the rest of us when Ben got home on Saturday and she was moving like crazy so Ben was able to feel a couple of thumps as well.  I was measured by one of the doctors here last week and measured 23 cm.  She used a fetoscope to listen to the heartbeat and as soon as she put her ear against it, Gracie gave her a big kick also.  Erin thought it was very funny but was able to hear a clear heartbeat after that.

I’m feeling great although find myself pretty sleepy by the time the kids go to bed if I don’t get a nap in the afternoon.  I had been having some back/leg pain but a minor adjustment to my pillows (suggested by my personal PT, Chrissie) fixed that problem.  The only other complaint comes from the kids as my lap is running out of room for them.  Eden pointed out the other day that there just is not room for 3 babies on my lap anymore!